10 strategies to provide consistency in your child's daily life

Here are some strategies that may make things smoother for you and your child.

1. When you make rules, make them simple and specific, and post them in writing so your child can easily see them.
2. Rewards that are clear and meaningful to your child usually work best—and they don't have to be lavish.
3. Give feedback often, to let your child know how he or she is doing.
4. Help your child make smoother transitions by anticipating and planning for what's coming up.
5. Maintain a sense of humor and be patient. With a little humor, you may be able to avoid conflicts.
6. Look for every opportunity to offer praise and positive reinforcement. But be careful not to gush over small accomplishments as your child will likely see through you.
7. Keep in mind that you are dealing with a medical condition your child has and not a character defect.
8. When it comes to discipline, don't talk too much and don't be wishy-washy—respond with clear statements tied to action.
9. Expect that children will have good days and bad days.
10. Remember, blaming your child, yourself, or your spouse won't help. You're all in it together and you're all trying your best.

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